Spousal emotional abuse

Spousal emotional abuse

Malaysian parliamentarian Che Mohamad Zulkifly Jusoh of the United Malays National Organization says that wives hurt and abuse their husbands in an extreme manner by cursing and insulting their husbands, and refusing the husband’s sexual needs and refusing to have sex with their husbands, and that all these constitute psychological and emotional abuse.  Wives who refuse to have sex with their husbands or deny their husbands a second wife are guilty of psychological and emotional abuse.  Critics say this view is “ridiculous” and is based on “ignorance”.

Our two fictional tellers of misfortune and futurists Art and Sage disagree strongly with the critic’s view.  They get together to talk about it.

Art:  Everyone who is married, who has ever been married, who has gone through a divorce, and many children growing up in dysfunctional families know that domestic violence and spousal abuse not only exist but are also widespread.  Domestic violence is perpetrated by the husbands and fathers against their wives and children whereas psychological and emotional abuse towards the husbands are perpetrated by the wives. Why are acts of cussing and cursing at their husbands, refusing to have sex with their husbands, denying their husbands’s sexual needs, and denying their husbands the right to take a second wife “ridiculous” and “based on ignorance”?

Sage:  The solution under Sharia law is to allow the husband to take a second wife. According to that Che Mohamad Zulkifly Jusoh, denying the husband to take a second wife also constitutes psychological and emotional abuse.

Art:  So Sharia law allows a husband who has been denied sex to take second, third or fourth wives to satisfy his sexual needs?

Sage:  Besides the husband’s sexual needs, there is also emotional connection and mutual affection between spouses that sustain a marriage.  And in many modern families, such emotional connection and mutual affection soon dissipate after marriage.  The seven-year itch or in Taiwan, the five-year itch, sets in, and married couples divorce.  Domestic violence and mistreatment of the wives, many of them “foreign brides”, are usually the causes of divorce.

Art:  The married life of too many men and women is and has been a life in hell.  After being married for several years, the relationship between husbands and wives turns contentious and becomes confrontational.  Wives and children may become victims of domestic violence and husbands become victims of the wives’ constant nagging and verbal psychological and emotional abuse.  Many children are psychologically affected by the constant arguments and fighting between their parents.  Is there a remedy?

Sage:  Actually yes!

Art:  And the remedy is?

Sage:  Robotic wives and AI sex dolls.

Art:  Anger, jealousy, abusiveness, temper tantrums, free will, and negative emotional reactions so far cannot be programmed into robotic AI sex dolls, and AI robots capable of learning through machine-human interaction the expressions and attitudes that are considered racist by humans must not be allowed. This seems to have already happened.

Sage:  So, the programming of robotic AI sex dolls should be limited to docile, servile and non-aggressive “personality traits”.

Art: The function of the robotic AI sex doll is to serve its owner, providing sexual gratification and emotional companionship even though sentiments towards one’s robotic AI sex doll would only be one-way.

Sage:  With a robotic AI sex doll, family incest, rape, sex crimes, human prostitution, human transmitted STDs, could very well be reduced.

Art:  Let me imagine this.  Mom says to her teenage son:  Don’t rape your sister!  And don’t come asking for sexual favors from me!  Go relieve yourself with your AI sex doll I bought you!  And don’t you go visit some brothel and have unprotected sex with some human prostitute!  You’ll get STD.  Stay home, and have fun with your beautiful robot AI sex doll I bought you!  The teenage son complains:  But Mom, it’s a machine!  It is not flesh and blood!  I want the real thing!  Mom answers:  Your beautiful robotic AI sex doll will not fight back or resist, but a real girl will refuse your advances and fight back if you force yourself on her!  You will be committing rape if you force yourself on a real girl, but there is no such thing as  “raping” an inanimate mechanical robot AI sex doll.

Ah, yes.  What about the argument that someone who “practices” extreme sexual behavior with a robotic AI sex doll may be encouraged to try it on a real woman or prepubescent child?

Sage:  Let’s say a sexual pervert buys a robotic AI sex doll and a pedophile buys a robotic AI sex doll in the form of a prepubescent human child, and practices rape with the sex doll and pedophilia with the child-like sex doll.  If they then go out and commit rape and pedophile sex crimes by attacking a real prepubescent child or a real woman, their “practice” with the robotic sex dolls would be a manifestation of their aggressive sexual perversion and pedophile fantasies.  If their fantasies are gratified by their robotic AI sex dolls, their desire to commit sex crimes on real women and prepubescent children would be quenched.  If, however, they still go out and commit rape and sexual assault on women and prepubescent children, they are clearly dangerously deranged sexual predators and sex criminals and rapists who are mentally sick.

I am curious.  Would you prefer to be with a robotic AI sex doll or would you prefer to be with a real woman in marriage?

Art:  I would prefer to remain unmarried and be accompanied by a realistic looking robotic AI sex doll.  There are too many married men who have gone through hell in their years of marriage.  The human female’s abusive temperament is psychological and emotional abuse.  A wife’s constant nagging is severe abuse towards the husband.

Art:  Assume that a married man buys several robotic AI sex dolls, say, four “female” sex dolls and one or two “male” sex dolls and brings them home.  He declares them to be new additions to the “family”.  So the “family” now consists of humans and robotic AI sex dolls. The husband further declares that the main functions of these robotic sex dolls are to serve as sex toys to provide sexual pleasures for the wife, the daughters and the husband and the sons.  Would family relations improve?

Sage:  I would definitely think so.  Initial jealousy on the part of the human wife towards the “female” sex dolls is possible.  The standard complaint of the human wife is:  You pay attention to the sex dolls more than you do to me!  The husband says:  But you deny me sex.  You cuss me out.  You curse me when I get home late.  You get upset when I watch my favorite game on TV.  You get jealous when I talk to our neighbor’s wife!  You constantly complain that I do not earn enough money!  You cuss me out when I am too tired to take out the trash sometimes.  You constantly shout and nag at me and at the children.  And you constantly complain about the next door neighbor.  Every time I say something to you, you always say “No!”.  “Am I that unworthy to you?!”  “You constantly reject me!”

Art:  So, with the “female” and “male” sex dolls in the family, the husband’s sexual needs would be gratified any time he wants.  The son’s and daughter’s adolescent sexual desires would also be satisfied.  The “male” sex doll for the wife could also serve as her punching bag, allowing her to vent her frustrations and anger, her constant nagging, her cursing and her cussing, and gratify her sexual desires.  Both the husband and the wife would not feel any need for having extramarital affairs.

Sage:  The family would become a polygamous family consisting of one human husband, one human wife, several human sons and daughters, and robotic sex dolls that can serve as inanimate sex partners for every human member of the family.  Sexual fantasies of the adolescent sons and daughters can also be fulfilled.  Adolescent males who fantasize about their younger sister, who have a crush on their sexy female teacher and are infatuated with their sexy female teacher can fulfill their fantasy with a female sex doll that can be made to look realistically like the younger sister or the female teacher of choice.

Art:  Psychological and emotional abuse perpetrated by the wife who constantly curses and cusses out her husband and denies her husband’s desire for sex is real.  It is not “ridiculous” nor is it “based on ignorance”.

Sage:  The critics are really the “ridiculous” and the “ignorant” ones!